Nation-Wide Assemblies and Workshops for Students and Adults

You’ve come to the right place. Bucketfillers For Life is your only source for the original anti-bullying, bucketfilling-based character education program for youth, and life-changing workshops for adults as developed by Merrill Lundgren, The Bucket Man.

Merrill Lundgren "The Bucket Man"

Merrill Lundgren "The Bucket Man"

Our program is available nation-wide via six Regional Training Centers. Contact your nearest training center today. You’ll be glad you did!

What is a Bucketfiller?

We all carry an invisible bucket. This bucket contains our feelings. When our bucket is full, we feel great; when it’s empty, we feel empty. A bucketfiller is someone who says or does nice things for other people. By doing this, they are filling other people’s buckets and filling their own bucket at the same time. On the other hand, a bucketdipper says or does things to cause other people to feel bad. This simple but profound philosophy applies to every aspect of life.

Please note that we did not create the Dipper and Bucket metaphor, although we believe The Bucket Man was the first person to apply this powerful philosophy to individual school and classroom presentations in 1993. In the 1960’s, Dr. Donald O. Clifton (1924-2003), who would later go on to co-author the #1 New York Times bestseller How Full Is Your Bucket? and be named the Father of Strengths Psychology, first created the “Dipper and Bucket” metaphor that has now been passed along for decades.

"The entire Farms Intermediate School is now a "Bucket Filling" school. Our teachers, students, and staff live your message. Farms Intermediate School has created a safe, friendly, respectful environment, and your message reinforces and builds on our expectations. Your message has made the students more aware of his/her actions. I thank you for taking the time to teach them."

Bonnie Meadows, Assist Principal
Farms Intermediate School, Hartland, MI
“You showed me things that I didn’t see before. Three things that I will do to keep this going are write a letter to everyone in my family, try to be nicer and not yell as much. Thank you for helping me understand things I never understood before.”

Amber, a Student
"We usually gauge the success of a presentation on the reaction of the faculty and students. The faculty has totally embraced the concept and will continue it throughout the year because of the effect it had on them personally. The students have reacted positively to filling each other’s bucket. We would recommend this presentation to you without any reservations."

Michael McGonigle, Principal & Theodora Morgan, Assistant Principal
Holy Family School, Grand Blanc, MI