What is a Bucketfiller?

We all carry an invisible bucket. This bucket contains our feelings. When our bucket is full, we feel great; when it’s empty, we feel empty. A bucketfiller is someone who says or does nice things for other people. By doing this, they are filling other people’s buckets and filling their own bucket at the same time. On the other hand, a bucketdipper says or does things to cause other people to feel bad. This simple but profound philosophy applies to every aspect of life.

Please note that we did not create the Dipper and Bucket metaphor, although we believe The Bucket Man was the first person to apply this powerful philosophy to individual school and classroom presentations in 1993. In the 1960′s, Dr. Donald O. Clifton (1924-2003), who would later go on to co-author the #1 New York Times bestseller How Full Is Your Bucket? and be named the Father of Strengths Psychology, first created the “Dipper and Bucket” metaphor that has now been passed along for decades.

“…the Bucketfillers program serves as the springboard for our bullying and positive reinforcement programs for our children. The staff, students and parents love the concept and actively practice bucketfilling…”

Phillip Seasock, Principal
Lindemann Elementary School
Allen Park, MI
"Thank you, Carol Hamilton, for sharing with the fourth graders. As I read some of the responses this morning, I felt tingles up and down my spine! We talked more today about 'filling our buckets". I think they learned much. “

Louise Schmidtberger, 4th grade teacher
Portersville Christian School
Grove City, PA
"We are so pleased with the bucketfiller programs! Since beginning with bucketfilling, the referrals of students to my office for bullying behavior has decreased by about 40%. I expect that improvement to continue!"

Lisa Miller, Principal
Grundy Center Elementary School
Grundy Center, Iowa